Thursday, February 28, 2013

FRIENDSHIP

Alois Kolar

Each of us needs someone to trust, someone, we can call when things are great, when things get tough, and also someone, to whom we can share a good book, a lunch, a dinner, seating on the beach watching beautiful sunset or simply listen to a good music.
Friendship is practically a refuge from the storms of life and can not develop without honesty, not without stability.
Perfect friendship exists between good men who are alike in their virtuousness.

Technically, friendship (which derives from spanish amar – amigo - to love) is a loving relationship between two or more people and is one of the most common relationships in different stages of life and in different degrees of importance that most people have in their lives.

Friendship is a relationship most sympathetic, but you have to work on it :).
It is not enough to say that woman/man is a friend of someone, with such way of understanding nothing happens. Friendship is devotion to that other person, you need to give her time to know how she/he is, what are her/his dreams and aspirations. It is concern and commitment on the base on strong emotions, as against their needs, is to know to listen and not just wanting to be heard...

Friendship is love, well, it's more than love, it's a feeling of love for another person. When someone love her/his friend, and because of it for this person would sacrifice if necessary, that's why the friendship is the most beautiful human relationship.

A good friend is worth more than everything. When we say: "She is a friend of my soul", it really means that we could die for that person and only one line very, very thin, almost invisible separates us of so called love (without friendship love is a game of hormones, is crazinies and never last).

With a good friend we share our ideals, desires, successes, failures, we share everything... 

Tell me, to whom you want first to share your happiness?
If something goes wrong in love, who can fell you the best? If something goes wrong in studying, who can feel you the best? If something goes wrong in your relationship, marriage, who can feel you the best? If something goes wrong between neighbors (gossips, liars, malicious), who can feel you the best? When you stumble, who will help you get up? When you get lonely, who can feel you the best?
Yes, you're absolutely right: a friend, honest and good.

When two persons completely trust one to another, the ratio may increase to a highest level and both of them conquer heights of friendship together. Unfortunately, with strong intoxicated people this is not possbile...

The Greek philosopher Aristotle (384 A.C.) said: "True friends are a safe haven."

The ones who notice the storm in your eyes, silence in your voice and heaviness in your heart are the ones you must let in your circle. Today and every day think about what you say and say what you think about and don't waste precious time of your life for jealousy, hypocrisy, lies. I don't have time for these... 

Yes, I'd like to be your friend :)...

Chiclayo – Lambayeque, 28.02.2013